Online Chatting Tips

How to Talk to Girls Online

Talking to girls online can sometimes be much easier

than talking to them in person, but there is still an art

to carrying on a conversation when it is conducted over

the Internet. You need to know how to keep the chat

flowing well and how to keep girls interested. With some

luck--and talent--you might find yourself meeting girls

face-to-face after a successful online chat.

Instructions

Step 1

Decide what kind of girl you want to talk to. Are you hoping to

find a girl online who you will eventually meet and have

a meaningful relationship with, or do you simply want to talk

with girls online with no plans for anything beyond chatting?

Since most websites have a certain focus with regards to

what the chatters want, whether it's a relationship, friends or

something else, you'll want to find a website based on what

you're looking for.

Step 2

Talk to girls who you already know using an Instant Messenger

program like Yahoo! or MSN. You can also use the IM programs

included with social networking websites like MySpace and Facebook.

Using these programs you can have real-time conversations with

girls who you already know, or who you aren't too familiar with but

would like to know better. The advantage to using the IM program

on a social networking website is the option of perusing the girl's

website before or during the chat so you already know her interests.

Step 3

Find girls who you don't already know by checking out some chat

sites. Since there are so many chat sites available, it's a good idea

to narrow down your search by sticking with websites that pertain

to subjects you're interested in (see Resources below). Not only

will you be able to meet girls who have similar interests, but you

will also have something to talk about. It can be much easier to

initiate and maintain an online conversation if you have a topic of

interest both chatters want to talk about.

Step 4

Read what you type aloud before you submit it into the chat system.

Remember that sometimes the way things look when typed out

seem a lot different when spoken aloud, and this is why you want

to make sure that you aren't sending the wrong message by mistake.

As you become more adept at talking to girls online, you won't need

to do this anymore, but in the beginning stages this might be able to

calm your nerves while also making sure you type what you actually

mean to say.

Step 5

Don't rely too greatly on smileys and other tricks. While these can

certainly accentuate an online conversation when used appropriately,

using them too much can annoy the girl you are talking to. Be yourself.

Don't put on a facade and pretend to be someone you aren't.

You'll enjoy the conversations more--and get a better reaction

from the girls.