Body Language

Love has its own Body Language

Focus

If you’re interested in someone, you focus and pay attention. If you’re not interested in someone, your attention wanders. So if you’re sitting with the person you like, and he/she is looking at you when you’re talking, that’s a great sign. The eyes have it all and thus if the person is not interested he/she will keep looking out the window, or watching other girls/men.

Dilated eyes
As they say “The eyes are the window to the soul.” Thus while you are talking to the person you like, your eye pupils dialate (get bigger) when you’re excited. So if someone’s eyes look really big, it shows they’re interested. Thus keep your eyes on him/her and observe the eyes.

Lip and Mouth Activities
A girl might bite her lip gently, or run her tongue along her lip to show that she is interested. Some girls even do this deliberately to flirt, although it rarely looks natural. If you’re a girl, don’t try it, unless you’re really sure it looks natural.

Hair
Fiddling and playing with hair is one way to show that you are interested. Girls wrap their fingers in their hair. Guys run their hands through their hair. Note that twirling your hair is more a sign of boredom and distraction.

Arms and Hands
If the girl keeps her arms or hands closed or crossed (which is normal if its cold) then that is a clear indication that she’s not feeling comfortable. Arms that are out and away from her are less ‘defensive’. Also, if the woman leaves her wrist-up, it’s sort of an “I trust you” motion.

Legs
Women normally like to sit cross-legged and note that it doesn’t mean that she isn’t interested. So forget about that and concentrate on the toes because, toes tend to react to general body energy. So if someone’s feeling bored and listless, they might just lay there. But if someone is feeling excited and energetic, the toe might make little circles or bounce. Women when are interested point their toes towards the man.

The Voice
The way someone talks and especially the tone of the voice is hugely important. It will instantly tell you whether: Are they bored and weary? Are they thoughtful and quiet? Are they enthused and interested? To find out whether the person is interested in you first watch your own speech and then watch how their speech changes. If someone wants to ‘get along’ with someone else, they naturally match their speech patterns together. If you’re interested in someone, you start to naturally speak like them, using the same tone of voice, the same loudness/softness and speed, the same phrases even.

Signs of Attraction

Body Language Signs of Attraction

Budge Please!

Irrespective of where you have met him and irrespective of where you are going to meet him, does he offer you a seat next to him? Does he ask his friends to budge a little aside so that you can sit next to him? If yes, this is an obvious sign of male attraction. Closeness is the first of the body language signs of attraction. Even though he may want to be close to you, the situation may put him on guard. Don’t panic or be judgmental, give him some space and he’ll come back. So if the answers to the earlier questions is yes, there you go!

Read the Eyes
As the old adage goes, eyes are the windows to the trapped soul. Considering that it’s an old adage, it’s tried and tested too. A firm eye contact has a lot of power. A confident and unwavering eye contact, means the person is surely interested in interacting with you. Now, the ball is in your court, bounce it back, or better, don’t!

Copy Cat
The last time you copied, it was unethical. Copying the actions, gestures and gesticulations of the person you are attracted to, is one of the obvious body language signs of attraction. It’s natural to mirror someone you like, so if there is someone who likes you, the body language will show.

Say Cheese
The most easy and sure body language of attraction is a simple smile. Getting a smile back from the person you are attracted to, is half the battle won. And a smile with an eye contact is a powerful combination that just cannot go wrong.

Precious Touch
Touching while talking is also another of the body language signs of attraction. Usually, women tend to do this more than men. If she touches your forearm while talking, or slaps your wrist or touches you on the back while moving in a crowd then she likes you too.

Easy Lean
If she leans over you to take something or pick something up, then there are no two ways about her attraction towards you. Don’t move away while she trying to lean over you, because she is just doing it to be close to you. So let her be, as that’s her way of saying ‘I like you’.

Body language and signs of romantic attraction have an epic to tell if you are interested. To determine the attraction towards you, silently observe the person, and this time try to listen to the language of the body with your eyes wide open! Body language in attraction is way different from body language in routine life. Body language and attraction signs are many, but just a smile and eye contact have a lot to say. Here’s your chance to find out.