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Showing posts with label sexuality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sexuality. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Wearing Purple in Solidarity with LGBTQ Youth

Today I wore purple in memory of the youth who have recently committed suicide after being bullied beyond the point that they could bear because of their sexuality or perceived sexuality.  I also donned the color purple in solidarity with LGBTQ youth who might be going through the struggle of being judged, harrassed, and abused because they are different.  As someone who openly identifies as queer, this is an issue that is very dear to my heart.
 Tank - H&M (remixed), Cardi - August Silk (remixed), Skirt - Sandro (TJ Maxx), Scarf - Oscar de la Renta (TJ Maxx and remixed), Tights - HUE (remixed), Shoes - John Fluevog (remixed)
As educators, we should not be silent or look the other way if we witness bullying.  Our campuses and our classrooms need to be safe places where people can express their opinions respectfully.  Bullying, hate speech, and physical intimidation and abuse must be stopped.  No one should be the victim of bullying because of his or her sexuality, race, creed, weight, ethnicity, or other perceived difference. 

If you don't already know about the Trevor Project, please check it out.  Also please take the time to find out what GLBTQ resources exist on your campus so that you can refer students if someone tells you they have been bullied because of their sexuality.

Thursday, April 29, 2010

"It's short for ... Bob."*

Well, yesterday I interrupted my normally scheduled program of revising my dissertation for a couple of hours to go see my hair stylist at the Aveda salon (and a trip to the grocery).  I really, really like my stylist, and I completely trust her with color and scissors, and she rocked the hell out of my wedding updo, so I'll be grateful to her forever (or at least whenever I thumb through my wedding album).  When I went in, I told her that I either wanted to continue with the coppery highlights and get a sling bob, or to go brown and get a pixie.  I asked her opinion, and did mention that I'm not sure I'll have time to get my hair cut again before my defense, and she fell in with the majority of those who voted on my poll a couple of weeks ago.  So we went with the bob.


It was pretty windy when I got home, but my photographer managed to get a couple of good shots of my casual outfit for work and errands and my hair.1
 1. Dress - BCBG (old)
Tights - We Love Colors
Cardi - August Silk (remixed)
Flats - Steve Madden (remixed)


I do feel like this style is more me -- part chic and part tomboy.  Interestingly, though, as I was flipping through some recent magazines while at the salon, I noticed that almost all the celebrities and models featured had long hair.  From 2005 (when I last cut long hair short) and up until this year, I've had very few female students with hair shorter than mine.  I could count them on one hand.  My favorite show LOST features no female characters with hair shorter than shoulder length.  Indeed, Sun's hair grew several inches during the first 50 days on the island....  It's refreshing to see more of a variety of hair styles among female style bloggers, but I can't help but wonder if most women don't still consider their hair their "crowning glory."

In the 1920s, women asked themselves the question of whether or not to bob their hair.  Trips to the barber (women's hairstylists were late to the cutting game) sometimes ended with angry parents, broken engagements, or divorces and wrecked homes, as women had their tresses clipped.  Of course, many of these women or "flappers" also drank, smoked, danced, drove cars, went to jazz clubs, and to petting parties. The term flapper itself was a derrogatory one, possibly originating from the word flap, a seventeenth-century English word for prostitute, or possibly refering to a young bird.  But let's get back to hair.2  Do you or do you know people who still associate short hair on women with subversion, sexual permissiveness, or even as a marker of sexuality?

2. Please note that I'm not a specialist in modern American history.  On flappers see, Angela Latham, Posing a Threat: Flappers, Chorus Girls, and Other Brazen Performers of the American 1920s (2000) and Liz Conor, The Spectacular Modern Woman: Feminine Visibility in the 1920s (2004).

* Black Adder II "Bells"  -- If you like Monty Python, I highly recommend the Black Adder series.  It's some funny shit.

Monday, April 19, 2010

Pierced Academics in Dialogue

Many of us, as academics, have had to consider the ramifications that body piercings might have for our professional and personal lives.  Just what does being pierced mean for academics?  I sat down with my friend, fellow academic, and now co-blogger, Herr Doktor (HD), to begin to tease out some answers in hopes that you’ll join our conversation.

La Historiadora de Moda : When did you get your piercings and why? 

Herr Doktor: I still remember walking into the piercing shop for the first time to get my ear pierced.  It was a transitional moment in my life: I’d just finished undergrad, I was well on my way out of a bad relationship, and I was coming out.  So the earring, which is in my left ear, has a lot of personal meaning to me.  This was the early twenty-aughts and the old adage that right is gay and left is straight seemed to be fading away and wasn’t important to me.  My eyebrow piercing, on the other hand, was a purely aesthetic choice, even thought I got it right after completing my master’s thesis.  I think eyebrow piercings are hot on everyone, but, particularly on men.  So my piercings mark milestones for me but with very different meanings. 

HD:  What about you … when and why?

LHDM: I had my ears pierced when I was six years old.  I remember begging my mom to let me get them done, and finally she took me to Claire’s to do the deed.  I got several other ear piercings during my late teens, but I didn’t maintain their upkeep, and now they are piercing ghosts.  When I was 18, my best friend in high school and I both went and got our tongues pierced.  She paid for my piercing as a graduation gift.  I got my nose pierced about a year later.  Being from a small town, my piercings (particularly tongue and nose) marked me as different, as part of a subculture -- an alt crowd.  Later, in grad school, I spent a fair amount of time in European cities, and there it seemed that many more women (and men) had piercings.  It no longer marked me as different or being so subversive.  Instead it seemed to almost become a marker of belonging.

 LHDM:  Have any of your students, colleagues, or supervisors in grad school said anything to you about your piercings? 

HD: I’ve had students compliment me on my eyebrow piercing—the earring seems to be passé—sharing their enthusiasm about body art.  I do recall a conversation with fellow graduate students in which a number of people expressed concerns that having a piercing might negatively affect one’s prospects on the job market.  Never once, however, has a faculty supervisor suggested that there might be professional problems with my piercings.  Really, the most frequent comment is surprise after finally noticing a shiny bit of metal on my eyebrow because its gauge is on the small side.  Call me a subtle piercer.

HD:  Have any comments about your piercings in an academic setting stood out to you?

LHDM: I occasionally have received compliments on my earrings or nose stud from students or colleagues.  However, the only comment that really stands out is once a student told me I had something hanging out of my nose.  She thought it was a booger but then on closer inspection realized it was my nose screw.  We were both a little chagrined.  I’ve never had a single student or faculty colleague comment on my tongue piercing to date.  I don’t think it’s very noticeable under normal circumstances.

 LHDM: Are there any occasions for which you would remove your piercings?

HD: I may be a subtle piercer, but I’m also stubborn.  I really can’t think of a reason that I would remove them, unless I decided to change my style.

HD:  Would you remove your piercings for an academic job interview?

LHDM: No.  I have not removed them for any of the job interviews that I have had, including the ones that landed me academic positions.  My philosophy is that these piercings have become part of my identity.   You can expect me to wear a suit to an interview, but you can also expect to see a little bit of metal, too, if you're looking really closely.   I am, however, thinking about getting rid of my tongue piercing, because, even though I don’t play with it, I’m starting to notice some chipped enamel on the backs of my bottom front teeth that my dentist and my father-in-law, who is a dentist, might have something to say about.  It really pains me though to have to consider this, though. 

LHDM:  How do you think about your piercing as a public marker of gender and/or sexuality?

HD: Both of my piercings do have to do with my sexuality for different reasons.  Even though I didn’t follow the conventional gay/straight ear dichotomy, my earring is a powerful symbol of coming out for me.  Nevertheless, it seems clear now that earrings for men no longer signify sexuality in the way that they once did in the United States.  The meaning of other piercings for men still seems to be in flux.  When I had my eyebrow pierced, I thought it marked me as gay as a guy.  Lately that seems to be less and less the case, as piercings for men become increasingly mainstream.  On the other hand, when I see guys with eyebrow piercings, I’m still tempted to read them as gay unless I have other evidence to the contrary.  It still signifies that to me, even though I know societal norms may be changing.
 HD: Do you see piercings as such markers?

LHDM:  I think with the increasing popularity of alt and hipster scenes, piercings no longer have such easily defined significances.  To some extent in high school and definitely in college, I ran with a crowd that was into body art and that encompassed a relatively large number of LGBTQ people, including myself.  I felt that to some extent my piercings connected to my identity as a bisexual woman, but I think this had to do more with the timing of my piercings (and first tattoo) than with  public conceptions of women’s sexuality and piercings as a marker thereof.  Of course, I have spent most of the past descade in large urban areas, and these perceptions about piercings may not be the same in more rural areas.  All this of course is a bit of a generalization, and I’m sure people can and will write dissertations on these topics.

HD: No doubt someone is writing such a dissertation, and I would love to read it!  My thesis overall would be that, despite recent fluctuations, piercings for men are more likely to be social markers of their sexuality than those of women.  I’d also be interested in thinking more about the role that piercings play in conceptions of class and race.

So, dear readers, what do you think about piercings in the academy?  If you have a piercing, do you view it as a public marker of your identity or sexuality in any way?  Do you feel as though you’ve ever experienced discrimination because of a piercing?
 

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