During a Date

21 Questions to Ask a Guy You Like

The following are 21 random questions to ask a guy you like on the phone or during a date.

1. What is the best/worst job you have ever had?
2. What did you enjoy/hate about school?
3. Is there anyone in the world you love so much that you could easily give your life for them?
4. Is there any cause that you believe in?
5. If you were granted 3 wishes, what would you ask for?
6. According to you, what are the attributes of a perfect woman?
7. What are your goals/ambitions for the future?
8. Do you believe in God?
9. Have you ever done a good deed in secret?
10. Who is your hero/idol?
11. Do you have any siblings?
12. What according to you, is a perfect/dream job?
13. What is your all time favorite book/movie? Why?
14. Do you like traveling? What is the best place you have traveled to?
15. If you were to be a millionaire tomorrow, what would you do with your money?
16. Do you have any phobia/deep fear?
17. What is the craziest thing you have ever done?
18. Do you have any fond childhood memories? What are they?
19. What are your biggest turn ons and turn offs?
20. What is your idea of a perfect party/celebration?
21. What according to you, is your biggest achievement?

21 Personal Questions to Ask a Guy

The following are 21 questions to ask a guy when into a relationship. Remember it is essential to get comfortable with each other before asking him these questions.

1. Who was your first love/first girlfriend?
2. Do you still have feelings for any of your ex?
3. Whenever you meet a girl, what do you first notice about her?
4. Have you ever dated two girls at the same time, without either of them knowing it?
5. How is your relation with your siblings?
6. What’s the most embarrassing moment of your life?
7. Tell me the sexiest thing about yourself/about me?
8. Who is your closest female friend?
9. What is your idea of true love?
10. What was your first impression about me?
11. What is the thing you do not like about me?
12. Have you dated anyone from different country/race/religion?
13. What is your idea of a perfect date/relationship/marriage?
14. What are your concepts of a marriage?
15. At what age do you wish to get married?
16. Do you like kids? How many o you wish to have?
17. Would you leave me for a celebrity?
18. Have you ever cheated anyone/got cheated upon by anyone?
19. What is your greatest regret in life?
20. Are you on friendly terms with any of your ex?
21. Do you believe in ‘being together forever’?

First Date

3 Things He Wants to Hear on a First Date

After reading several posts last week about first dates, and

first-date jitters, I thought it might be a good idea to give

some ideas of things guys are looking for on a first date,

specifically, what we want to hear.

“Do you work out?”
This is a win/win question because if the answer is “yes,” he’ll

be thrilled to hear that you noticed, and if the answer is “no,”

there’s a perfect excuse for you to tell him how fantastic he

looks and to keep doing whatever it is he’s doing. Danger alert:

Only ask this if you really want to know the answer. Some of us

can’t resist going into absurd details about exactly how we do

our pull-ups, the angle at which to land a right hook, etc. Worse

even, some of us cannot resist a demonstration. Caveat #2: If the

guy sitting across from you is clearly out of shape, don’t front,

and maybe avoid this topic entirely.

“I’ll have the steak.”
This isn’t a shot at vegetarians, but more of a commentary that

when we’re out on a dinner date, we want to know that you are

enjoying yourself, and the food, and that you haven’t lost your

appetite because of the terrible restaurant we’ve chosen, or

something off-putting that we’ve said. There is also, of course,

a whole other host of concerns that accompany a date not

ordering anything—is she self conscious? Does she have food

issues? Simply put: If you’re going out to dinner, eat dinner.

“ ”
This was a trick. There’s nothing between those quotation marks.

But also, there’s also everything between those quotation marks.

Because at the end of the day (or “date” as the case may be),

the most important elements early in a relationship can be the

unspoken ones. Does she make eye contact, seem relaxed and

comfortable? Does she pay attention, seem genuinely interested?

These can be deal breakers and much more significant than any

one line of dialogue, or flirty remark. These can be the things that

we remember.

What do you like to hear on a first date? What’s the best line

you’ve given on a first date?

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